More than the start, this should be called the indefinite pause of my journey. How did this happen? Well, I just realised I was not ready to meet people because I don’t even know myself well anymore. Too many thing happened in the last decade: I started living alone, I…

No matter how badly I want to jump into field work, there’s a very clear step that I need to do first: improve the relationship with myself. It sounds cliché but honestly, it’s not. This primary relationship is going to determine how my future connections will play out. There’s a…

Going back to the story, I started reading this book, ‘The ethical slut’ which is quite amazing. But not only for people who want to try poly, honestly, it is a must with everyone that would like to have a relationship with another human being. Why? I think the way…

As mentioned in my previous article, there was a mix of events getting me into this framework: The break up with my ex and the random intuition that monogamy was not for me. Not going anywhere with new relationships in 3 years. And this meaning, feeling frustrated when meeting people. …

The start of my poly journey — 1 It was all a sort of an unrelated chain of events. At least from the outside. And it was really not planned. When I finished my relationship with my ex boyfriend 3 years ago, for some random reason, I said “I’m so…